Most parents manage their kids' social lives. I expect my 8-year-old to do it himself.

The author stopped planning playdates for her 8-year-old. Courtesy of the author My son calls his classmates himself to arrange playdates and activities. I encourage independence while still guiding social awareness and etiquette. His confidence has strengthened both his friendships and our community ties. My now 8-year-old son consistently uses our landline to call his friends and classmates and ask for playdates. He has been initiating these telephone calls since he was 6 years old. He do...